I agree, I believe one has to be content with who they are and comfortable with their identity before searching for a partner in hopes that it may fill the “gap” in their life. In certain cases it does, but most lack the ability to self-reflect and look inwards — because too often it’s not pretty and requires effort to come to terms with. Further to that most people are unwilling to change themselves but demand too much of the partner to suit their requirements, lasting relationships require mutual compromise and understanding.
Thank you for your comment. :)